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The Honolulu Advertiser
Posted on: Thursday, August 15, 2002

THE LEFT LANE
'Rolling Requiem' to honor 9/11 victims

Advertiser Staff and News Services

A "Rolling Requiem" will circle the globe Sept. 11 in remembrance of those who died in the terrorist attacks a year earlier.

It will begin with a choir in New Zealand singing Mozart's "Requiem" at 8:46 a.m. local time, the time when the first plane struck the World Trade Center. Choirs in each time zone will continue, striking up the first note at their own 8:46 a.m.

In Hawai'i, where the last voices will be raised in song, the "Requiem" will be sung at Kawaiaha'o Church, conducted by Susan Duprey, with John McCreary on the organ and five soloists.

For information, check www.rollingrequiem.org, or phone 595-3043 to inquire about Hawai'i's participation.


Top-notch shave ware

New men's shaving products are cropping up almost as fast as that 5 o'clock shadow.

A shaving system that contains shea butter, an ultra-moisturizing ingredient, was recently introduced by L'Occitane en Provence. In Honolulu, it's available exclusively at McQuaid's Fine Living in the Waikiki Landmark building. Neutrogena now has a three-step system called "Razor Defense" to wash, shave and treat the skin. Available at drug stores or www.NeutrogenaMen.com.

DDF, a dermatological line at Sephora, offers an antibacterial lotion that calms the bumps and a mask that absorbs oil, often a culprit in breakouts. Phytomer, a spa line available at the Hilton Waikoloa Spa and Sephora, has a pre-shave mask and an after-shave skin conditioning treatment.


Self-esteem overdose bad for relationships

Love thyself?

Maybe the self-help books are wrong. All that advice that says before you can have a successful romantic relationship, you must first love yourself might be baloney, according to a new study headed by a psychologist at the University of Georgia.

Turns out those with positive self-regard bordering on narcissism are usually miserable mates — selfish, manipulative, unfaithful and power hungry. Though they may at first seem charming and interested in a relationship, they soon look for dominance rather than delight, says the study, published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.

Narcissism, it turns out, has many ill-starred variants, and the so-called self-esteem movement may have been completely wrong in saying that a person who doesn't love herself or himself can't successfully love others.


Rediscovering Demi

MOORE
Once the highest-paid actress in Hollywood, Demi Moore hasn't been heard from much since her split from Bruce Willis four years ago. She hasn't appeared in a movie since the little-seen 2000 indie "Passion of Mind," and she hasn't starred in a major studio movie since 1997's "G.I. Jane."

But now, reports Entertainment Weekly, the 39-year-old Moore is ready to return to the big screen.

Moore has signed on for a villainous role in "Charlie's Angels 2: Halo." In the film, due out next summer, Moore will play a fallen Angel who turns against mysterious millionaire Charlie's current trio of sleuths.