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The Honolulu Advertiser
Posted on: Friday, December 20, 2002

ADVERTISER CHRISTMAS FUND
Hungry family about to lose welfare

By Rod Ohira
Advertiser Staff Writer

"E.K." remembers her husband left for work on a Friday in 1999 and never returned.

"He said 'Fix me my food. Give me my shoes,'" the battered spouse recalled. "He took the last of our food."

She will never forget the sound of her hungry children crying that day. "I told them they had to wait, that we cannot pick up food until Saturday."

About a month later, E.K. saw her husband again. "He was with another woman and said he was happy with her," she said. "He never once asked how the kids were."

E.K. struggled for two years to overcome depression and start a new life with the help of relatives.

• Checks made payable to The Advertiser Christmas Fund should be mailed to Helping Hands Hawai'i, P.O. Box 17328, Honolulu, HI 96817.

• Our anonymous Santa will match the first $25 of all contributions. The Harry and Jeanette Weinberg Foundation has pledged to match and double cash donations.

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"It took a long time to get back on my feet, and the hardest part was finding a job," she said.

She and her children, ages 11 to 16, are living in public housing. E.K. works part-time as a house cleaner, earning $6 an hour. Her monthly income of about $420 and food stamps barely covers basic needs, and will grow tighter when she loses welfare assistance at the end of the year.

Rent and utility bills eat up most of her money. School lunches are her children's main meal.

"We eat mostly soup and rice at home," she said. "It is a miracle that we survive each day."

E.K. would like a couch and new clothes for her children, who are teased at school for wearing the same clothes every week. The family would like to have a place to sit other than the floor.

"It's hard, but I like my life now," she said. "I don't have to worry about me or the children being hit."

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