THE LEFT LANE
A peek at the 'Iolani Palace

Advertiser Staff and News Services

The tours commemorate the birthday of Queen Kapi'olani, which falls on New Year's Eve.

The Blue Room piano will be played, and musicians will serenade tour participants from 6 to 8:30 p.m.

Admission is $5 ($2 for those 13-18, children younger than 12 are admitted free, and those younger than 5 must be carried). Information: 522-0832.

Bereavement help

For people grieving the loss of a loved one, the holiday spirit can be difficult to find.

The bottom line, says George Osakoda, coordinator of bereavement programs for Hospice Hawaii, is to do what's best for you.

If you want to be alone, fine. Take time to mourn and do so where it works for you — during a walk on the beach, for example. If you need company, ask friends and family to talk with you about your loved one and your feelings.

Be aware that grief is a source of stress that can knock you out of stride. Recognize limits and pace yourself. Concentration can be hard; make daily lists. Prepare yourself emotionally and physically with meditation, proper exercise and diet. Pamper yourself.

For more information about bereavement support groups, call 924-9255.

Luck of the draw

Stephanie Castillo

At a recent showing of "An Untold Triumph," the documentary about the Army's 1st and 2nd Filipino Infantry Regiments and their role in the liberation of the Philippines during World War II, a 76-year-old veteran of the regiments was randomly picked for a DVD player door prize.

Biagbido Macatumbas was 18 when the regiments arrived in the Philippines, a "boloman" guard in a guerrilla unit. He became a Philippine Scout in 1946 and was assigned to U.S. forces in Manila.

"We Filipinos are believers in luck and fate," said filmmaker Stephanie Castillo. "It was as if the hand of God drew the right man."