• TEMPLE EMANU-EL — Services for Yom Kippur, the Jewish day of atonement, will be at this reform Jewish synagogue as follows: Erev Yom Kippur Kol Nidre, Sunday: 6:30 p.m. traditional; 7:30 p.m. reform; Yom Kippur Yizkor, Monday: 9 a.m., traditional; 9:30 a.m., reform; 2 p.m., children's; 3 p.m., reform; Erev Sukkot, Friday: 5:30 p.m. barbecue; 2550 Pali Highway. 595-7521.

• SOF MA'ARAV — Services for Yom Kippur, the Jewish day of atonement, will be as at this conservative Jewish synagogue as follows: Kol Nidre: 6:30 p.m. Sunday, 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. and 5 to 7 p.m. followed by potluck, Monday, 2500 Pali Highway. 373-3742.

• CHABAD OF HAWAII — Services for Yom Kippur, the Jewish day of atonement, will be held by the association of orthodox Jews as follows: Kol Nidre: 6:30 p.m. Sunday with candle lighting 6:15 p.m.; 10 a.m. Monday with children's service at 11:30 a.m, Yizkor 1:30 p.m., Neilah 5 p.m. and break-the-fast meal 7:15 p.m. 735-8161.

• KEHILAT HA MELECH — Services for Yom Kippur, the Jewish day of atonement, will be held by the association of Messianic Jews as follows: 6:30 to 7:30 p.m. Sunday; 9:30 to 10:45 a.m. and 6:30 to 8 p.m. Monday, Waikiki Community Center chapel, 277 'Ohua Ave. 236-0440.

• KONA BETH SHALOM — Services for Yom Kippur, the Jewish day of atonement, will be as at this association of Big Island Jews as follows: Kol Nidre: 6 p.m. Sunday; 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. and 4 p.m. Yizkor, Monday, Neilah, blowing of the shofar and a break-the-fast supper to follow, Kahalu'u Ballroom, Ohana Keauhou Beach Resort, Kailua, Kona, Hawai'i; donations requested from visitors, members free. (808) 322-6004.

TODAY

• SEPT. 11 MEMORIAL SERVICE AND COMMUNITY CLEANUP, 9 a.m. to 12:30 p.m., First Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) of Makiki, 1516 Kewalo St. 521-3500.

• "VIOLENCE IN FAMILIES: WHAT EVERY CHRISTIAN NEEDS TO KNOW," discussion and book signing by the Rev. Al Miles, coordinator of the Hospital Ministry Department at The Queen's Medical Center, 2 p.m., Barnes & Noble Booksellers, Kahala Mall. 737-3323.

• MEET ME AT THE POLE, PRE-POLE RALLY, student-initiated movement of prayer around school flagpoles, 7 to 9 p.m., University of Hawai'i at Manoa Art Auditorium; parking $3. 946-1300.

• MAKAKILO FAMILY HISTORY CENTER WORKSHOP, free class on genealogy research, 8:30 a.m. to noon, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints on Makakilo Drive. 672-3341.

• EPISCOPAL CAMPUS CENTER DEDICATION and open house 5 p.m., 2324 Metcalf St., near University of Hawai'i-Manoa. E-mail smithc031@hawaii.rr.com

TOMORROW

• "WE REMEMBER," MEMORIAL CONCERT by Honolulu Community Band and various choirs, 7:30 p.m., Kawaiaha'o Church, 957 Punchbowl St.; free. 532-1260.

• OPEN TABLE PILGRIMAGE to visit the Siddha Yoga Meditation Center, 1270 Ala Moana, 4 to 6 p.m.; all welcome. 263-8567.

• VIOLIN CONCERT by virtuoso, Jaime Jorge, 9:30 a.m. performance of hymns and songs of praise, also at the 7:30 and 10 a.m. services, Calvary by the Sea Lutheran Church, 5339 Kalaniana'ole Highway; donations requested. 377-5477.

• AN EVENING WITH BARBARA BARRINGTON JONES, beauty pageant consultant, 7 to 8 p.m., the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints' Honolulu Tabernacle; free. 528-5596.

MONDAY

• BIBLE STUDY CLASS 9 a.m., Nu'uanu Congregational Church, 2651 Pali Highway; free. 595-3935.

THURSDAY

• FOREGIVENESS, second in a series on "Building Wealth: Starting With the Self and Reflecting Inward," 6 to 7:30 p.m., Kofuku-no-Kagaku Hawaii, The Institute for Research in Human Happiness, 1259 S. Beretania St., Suite 19 (2F). 591-9772.

FRIDAY

• "DNA CAN'T LIE: WE'RE ONE HUMAN FAMILY," 7:30 p.m., Honolulu Bahá'í Center, 2165 10th Ave., Kaimuki; free. 738-5683.

• QIGONG SEMINAR by Limin Song, 6 to 7:30 p.m., McCully-Mo'ili'ili Public Library, 2211 S. King St.; free. 941-9707.

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