For Sharon Stone, it isn't age, it's attitude

By Susan King
Los Angeles Times

Sharon Stone, 46 and proud of it, plays opposite Halle Barry in comic-book based "Catwoman." Los Angeles Times

That line was added after Stone had a heart-to-heart with producer Denise Di Novi. "I was telling her about how when I turned 40, I was going around saying, 'I'm 40 and it's so cool' — and then I couldn't get a job. It was the most peculiar thing I have ever seen."

Slender, with crisply spiked short hair, the 46-year-old Stone looks great. Her porcelain complexion seems as if it has never been kissed by the sun. Wearing a clingy dress that shows plenty of décolletage, Stone is friendly, but at a lofty remove — with a movie star's self-assurance.

To her astonishment, "Suddenly it's cool to be 40 again," says Stone, who has moved to Los Angeles. "I think it's Viagra allowing men to have their dignity and make choices that they want to make — wouldn't it be more fun to sleep with someone who is my peer? ... I also think it's women saying, 'You know I am in my sexual prime' and young men saying, 'Yeah, she is, and so am I.'"

Stone's character, Laurel, is willing to go to any lengths to keep her youthful appearance, including using a new cream that turns her visage to marble. Stone won't say whether she has used Botox or to what extreme she would go to retain her appearance.

"I have this guy friend who just keeps getting a ton of Botox," she says. "I said to him, 'Can you move your face?' And he said, 'Let them guess what I am thinking.'

"Well, my thoughts and feelings about all of these things are you should do whatever makes you happy and doesn't hurt anybody else. But it's up to you. It's like sex. If it works for you and you want to do it or your partner wants to do it, try it or don't try it. ..."

"But I don't want to endorse or not endorse any of it. ... There is just some of that stuff I wouldn't do to myself because I am a person who is OK with saying 'I am 46.' There are other actresses who are my age or near my age who are getting jobs I can't get because (filmmakers) say they want younger women and they say they are younger. And they get the job I can't get."

In some cases, perhaps a reputation as one of Hollywood's more difficult divas has something to do with it. In the wake of a tentative settlement of her lawsuit against producers Mario Kassar and Andy Vajna over the collapse of a planned sequel to 1992's "Basic Instinct," it came to light that her requested perks included a $3,500-a-week expense allowance, three nannies, the use of a private jet, a securable home acceptable to the actress or a first-class hotel suite.

"I heard a lot of bad things about Sharon," says "Catwoman" director Pitof. "But when I met her, I was totally blown away by her character. She set up a meeting, and during the whole thing she was very calm. We had a nice chat for two hours about France, art and cinema. She told me, 'I will do exactly what you want.' "

And Stone kept her word, the French director says. "She is very smart. We never had a fight. She proposed some stuff, but it was up to me to accept it or modify it. She never took over."

He says she was his only choice for the role. "To have somebody versus Halle Berry, we needed someone with a big presence."

Besides, the French love Stone, he says. "She has an attitude and this behavior of the stars of the '40s and '50s. In France we love that kind of star."

Stone — divorced from San Francisco Chronicle editor Phil Bronstein and mother of a 4-year-old adopted son — says her near-death experience in 2001 from a tear in the artery at the base of her skull made her "less panicky. I don't care about 'things' as much anymore."

Nominated for an Emmy for her guest performance last season on ABC's "The Practice," these days Stone says she is offered a "fair amount" of work. Still, she notes, "I used to work because I had such a blue-collar work ethic, so I would do a bunch of work that maybe wasn't so great and make a bunch of movies that maybe weren't so fabulous. Now I would rather not work. I would rather be with my son. I would rather live my life."