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Posted on: Saturday, August 21, 2004

Hickam kids get a feel for what it's like to 'ship out'

 •  Kids and deployments

By Anna Weaver
Advertiser Staff Writer

HICKAM AIR FORCE BASE — Twenty-five children wearing camouflage jackets, belts and helmets stood chattering in a cargo plane hangar, literally waiting for their marching orders. After putting on camouflage face paint and shouting a loud response to their TIs, or technical instructors, the group picked up their gear and headed out to their base camp.

Air Force kids from Hickam line up for a briefing, part of Operation Hele On, to show children what deployment is like for their parents. *Jasmine Kellaway, 9, enjoys a lollipop during a break. Operation Hele On included camouflage paint and MREs.

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It was one of many simulations staged yesterday during a mock deployment day here. Fifty kids ranging from 8 to 13 years old split into two sections for Operation Hele On.

The event was staged to help Air Force children understand what their parents might go through when being deployed. Many of the children have parents serving overseas.

This is the first year that a mock deployment day has been held at Hickam. The base's Family Support Center and Family Member Program received a $5,000 Department of Defense grant for the event. It hopes to make it an annual program.

"This is specifically designed about what Mom and Dad are going through," said Cheryl Paiva, director of the Family Support Center. "We want to give them a nice memory during these difficult times. Something they can write to Mom and Dad about."

"I wanted to come because it sounded fun and my dad said it'd be a good experience for me," said Nathan Fetner, 12, whose father returned from deployment in December. "They teach you a lot."

Air Force Tech. Sgt. William "Bull" Robinson commands his charges to move quickly to the buses during Operation Hele On. "They're kind of scared" of the sergeants, one officer said of the kids..

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Ten-year-old Kirsten Cummings said that besides getting her camouflage face paint applied too vigorously by her boot camp instructor, she was having fun. "I am looking forward to climbing over ropes," said Kirsten, whose father is deployed in Afghanistan.

Boot camp briefing

Their day started at 7 a.m. Among other things, the children went through a number of steps designed to simulate what their parents would do before deployment. They checked on their finances, received legal advice and wrote their wills, had a medical check-up and immunizations, and talked with a chaplain. The kids each got their own dog tag and then received their small-print, page-long orders.

After picking up blue backpacks filled with MREs (Meals, Ready to Eat), T-shirts and hats, they went into an auditorium for a classified briefing from their deployment line leader, Capt. Michael Blakely. The children were told that this 15th Airlift Wing operation would last 179 days.

Jasmine Kellaway, 9, enjoys a lollipop during a break. Operation Hele On included camouflage paint and MREs.

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"They're kind of scared," said a smiling Blakely after seeing TIs barking, "Tie those shoelaces!" and other orders at the kids. "I thought one or two of them were going to cry."

"They were so cute in the boot camp. They all had to stand up (in unison)," said Beth Hodge, Family Member Program flight chief.

Marching and MREs

Forty volunteers, most of whom are military personnel, helped put on the event. "We don't really have that much of an opportunity to work with the kids," said medical administrator Noel Unite, who took photos throughout the day. "So the kids that have questions about what their parents do can get a better idea what it's like. And they can tell other kids, too."

"They seem to be enjoying it, especially the face paint and the picture-taking."

"I've heard them say, 'I'm having more fun than I thought,' " said Paiva, shortly after one children's group briefing in the morning.

Hodge chimed in, "And there's a lot more fun ahead."

The kids learned how to march in cadence. With face paint on and packs strapped to their backs the group headed to a rocky area at Hickam that would serve as Kumalani Air Force Base. There was lunch and more exercises and the day ended at 4:30 p.m. with a game of Capture the Flag.

Reach Anna Weaver at aweaver@honoluluadvertiser.com or 535-2455.

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Kids and deployments

Tips on helping children of deployed service personnel cope with the absence of a parent:

• Find support groups for the family and the children. Military bases all have some kind of support network.

• Help children mark the passing of time. Use a map to track the deployed parent's location. Mark off the days until the parent returns on a calendar. Keep children informed of daily activities.

• Keep consistent contact with the deployed person. Telephone calls, e-mail, videophone, videotapes, care packages and regular letter-writing make both parent and child feel closer despite the distance.

• Maintain home routines such as meal times and bed times, keep the same discipline level, and have kids help around the house to feel useful.

• Reassure children of both parents' love for them, be truthful about any situation that comes up during deployment, and share your own concerns with them.

Source: Hickam Air Force Base Family Support Center