Posted on: Thursday, August 26, 2004

Open house benefits all

By Treena Shapiro
Advertiser Education Writer

School is back in session. Have you met your child's teacher yet?

As children get older, parents find fewer reasons to step onto campus, but educators and involved parents suggest making the effort. Not only will it give you an idea of what your child will be doing in class, it also let your children know that you support their education.

Although many parents feel it isn't necessary to talk to the teacher unless their child is having problems, studies have shown that parental involvement during school years will carry over into your child's adult life.

As Pearl City Elementary principal Sharon Hirokane said, "If parents are actively involved their children have a higher chance of having career success."

Parents should not hold back even if they aren't proud of their own educational experiences.

"You don't have to have a strong educational background," Hirokane said. "If the child knows the parent is right there behind him, they are more resilient. That child will have the confidence to keep on trying."

Parents who know their children's teachers and principals suggest that these relationships improve their children's behavior because their kids fear their authority figures will compare notes if they do anything wrong.

You can use open house night as an opportunity to meet the school staff. Hearing the teacher give an overview of the upcoming year will allow you to better assist your child with homework. It will also make it easier to gauge progress when report cards and student-teacher conferences come up in a couple of months.

Joining the Parent Teacher Student Association can also help you get to know your child's teacher, as well as learn about the needs of your school. It will also demonstrate to your child how committed you are to helping the school, members say.

If you can't get on campus, some parents suggest opening the lines of communication by writing a note or calling the teacher. You can use that opportunity to ask the teacher to let you know if there is anything you can do to help your child or the school.

Reach Treena Shapiro at tshapiro@honoluluadvertiser.com or 525-8014.