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The Honolulu Advertiser
Posted on: Thursday, July 8, 2004

Ways to stay connected to family this summer

Gannett News Service

How to maintain family closeness even if everyone heads in different directions during the summer? Try this advice:

Grandparent factor: Suggest Grandma and Grandpa take the kids for a while so youngsters can bond with them. If you are a grandparent, don't wait to be asked. Invite the kids over and go on a picnic, or play board games. Go out for ice cream.

Hobbies: Share your interests with kids by encouraging them to join in the cooking or gardening. Go hiking or biking together.

Vacation: Take a family trip together and enjoy the sights. Shoot loads of photos and join together after the trip to build a scrapbook.

Letters: Write a letter to your child and pack it in the suitcase he'll take to camp. Send a care package to the camper. Note that the package is from the family.

Snuggling: Relax with the kids and watch their favorite show with them, or sit together on the couch and read.

Chores: Have the kids help wash the cars. Turn the hose on each other, and the work will become fun.

Work-reward: Work as a family trimming, weeding or whatever, and then go out as a group for shave ice or another treat.

Mealtime: Adjust work and recreation schedules so everyone has at least one meal a day together. If that's impossible, plan family meals on weekends. Get everyone involved in choosing a menu, grocery shopping and cooking.