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Posted on: Sunday, February 6, 2005

When faiths coincide

Stories by Mary Kaye Ritz
Advertiser Religion & Ethics Writer

ASH WEDNESDAY MUHARRAM CHINESE NEW YEAR

The Khan family

Front, Abdul-Karim Khan. Behind, from left, Sumble Maha, 19; wife, Zeenat Baha; Suha Maha, 15

Religion: Islam

Where they live: Pearl City

Holiday/date: Muharram (Islamic new year; it also refers to the month)/possibly Wednesday (it depends on the sighting of the new moon)


The Busekrus family

Clockwise: Michael, holding son Nicholas, 3; wife, Malia; Cassandra, 9; Samantha, 5; Zachary, 10; Timothy, 7

Religion: Roman Catholicism

Where they live: Enchanted Lake

Holiday/date: Ash Wednesday, the beginning of Lent, the period leading up to Easter/Wednesday


The Chan family

From left, Raymond Chan, Yichao, Angela Chan, 17, Cecilia Chan, 22, Anna Chan

Religion: Chinese Buddhism

Where they live: Kane'ohe

Holiday/date: Chinese New Year (start of year of the rooster)/Wednesday

Three faith groups, three holidays, one spiritual convergence: This year, Roman Catholics, Chinese Buddhists and Muslims will all have a reason to celebrate new beginnings when three of their holidays fall within a day or two.

That's unusual because they follow different calendars and formulas. It's possible for there to be weeks between Chinese New Year, Ash Wednesday (the beginning of Lent for some Christians) and Muharram, the beginning of the month for Islam's calendar. In 2006, Chinese New Year will fall at the end of January, but Lent won't begin until March. Other years, like this one, see less time in between.

Both Chinese Buddhists and Muslims rely on their lunar calendars, which differ slightly, but when it comes to Easter and its related dates, Catholics follow ecclesiastical rules that harken back to Gregorian dates. Generally, Easter is set for the first Sunday after the full moon that occurs next after the vernal equinox. Got that? Well, it's not always precise, because ecclesiastical rules use a chart to determine the "ecclesiastical moon" that may not be the astronomical full moon. And yes, it gets even more complicated.

We checked in with families of different faiths as part of this spiritual convergence.



Anna Chan, left, prays with her son, Raymond, daughter, Cecilia, and her niece, Angela Chan, at the Hawaii Buddhist Cultural Society in Chinatown on Sunday afternoon.

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Chinese Buddhism
Chinese Lunar New Year

Family rep: Raymond Chan, a student at the University of Hawai'i-Manoa who is studying psychology and biology.

Rest of the family: In Hawai'i, there's mom Anna, sister Cecilia, cousin Angela; dad Hong Kee Chan is working in Hong Kong now.

Chinese Lunar New Year: Preparations begin a month before, explains Raymond Chan. They clean the house thoroughly, buy new clothes and put up red decorations with their own lucky words. Lucky words come from the temple; this coming year, their lucky words are "auspicious coexistence," which means "everybody is happy together," he said. The words were written by the founder of his temple in Taiwan.

Special smells/sights/flavors: In China, they'll be eating meat dumplings "shaped bent, like Chinese gold or silver," he said, and might be drinking alcohol, but in his Buddhist tradition, they can't do that. They don't imbibe in alcohol or eat meat. "We still have fun," he said. And around Chinese celebrations here in Hawai'i, you'll be sure to see the colorful parade and smell the firecrackers.

How faith affects his life: "It's everything. I chose my major because of it. I believe that there's something behind our biological mind that can make sense of the world. ... The most essential is our invisible eye. Buddhism talks about that."


The Busekrus family, Michael, Malia, Cassandra, 9, in back row, Zachary, 10, Timothy, 7, Samantha, 5, and Nicholas, 3, in front row attend St. John Vianney church in Enchanted Lake.

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Roman Catholicism
Ash Wednesday

Family rep: Malia Busekrus, mother and homeschool teacher.

Rest of the family: With Michael, her husband, who is a third-grade teacher at Le Jardin Academy, she has five children: Zachary, 10; Cassandra, 9; Timothy, 7; Samantha, 5; and Nicholas, 3. Their newest arrival was due to be born yesterday.

Ash Wednesday: This day begins Lent, the period before Easter. It commemorates the 40 days Jesus spent in the desert, praying. The Busekrus family will go to the morning service to get ashes on their foreheads in the shape of a cross. "It represents repentance and humility," Malia Busekrus said.

Special smells/sights/flavors: "We'll have a festive meal on Tuesday," she said, though with a new baby, it's unlikely she'll attend her church's big Mardi Gras party. Plus, there's likely to be a whiff of malassadas in the air on Fat Tuesday. Color will also abound: "The priest and altar will be in purple," she notes, and once Lent starts, they'll have "lots of soups, salads and simple meals representing fasting."

How faith affects her life: "It's an incorporation of everything," Malia Busekrus said. "During Lent, we try to go to daily Mass as often as possible, receiving the Eucharist. Personally, I have prayer time by reading the Bible and I memorize scripture." When she's at a crossroads, she finds certain scriptures will pop into her mind, giving her direction. She also relies on a Catholic home-school group and a Christian fellowship group for spiritual support.


Sumble Maha Khan, left, her mother, Zeenat Baha Khan, and her sister, Suha Maha Khan, pray at their home in Pearl City.

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Islam
Muharram

Family rep: Abdul-Karim Khan, associate professor of world history.

Rest of the family: With wife, Zeenat, he has two daughters, Sumble, 19 and Suha, 15.

Muharram: As a Sunni Muslim, it's not celebrated the same way it is for Shiites, which consider the month of Muharram as a period of mourning. (Shiite Muslims are a smaller sect. Most Iranian Muslims are Shiite, as are many Iraqis and Afghans.) While some may fast that day, others may have a nice meal and invite over friends.

Special smells/sights/flavors: At the eids (festivals), there are foods from all over the world, especially with Hawai'i's diverse Muslim community. Among the dishes he likes is palio, a rice dish made with beef and raisins, which his wife makes Afghan-style, though "some people like it with sheep or goat. I like sheep, she likes goat." Also on eids, people dress up in bright new clothes, often embroidered and embellished.

How faith affects his life: Like any good Muslim, he's happy to share his faith. "One good thing is, if you ask (Muslims) what they are, they will tell you unless they're in imminent danger," he said. And Islam is "a natural part of yourself." Sure, some like him are born into it, but being Muslim in the United States has some interesting points — for instance, when he goes to a grocery store and sees the "spirits" aisle. (Most Muslims don't drink.) He tries to follow the way of the prophet, too: "Personally speaking, I always try my best to be nice to people, which is difficult. (Laugh) Anyone should be nice. ... I'd become a wonderful Muslim if I could become a wonderful human being."