Dear Advice Diva:

I am not sure what is going on with me lately. I am only 29 years old, and for the past few weeks, I have been experiencing bouts of uncontrollable sobbing. The triggers to my rivers of tears included watching Coldplay perform on "Saturday Night Live," Johnny Depp on "Inside the Actors Studio" and the prom-queen episode on MTV's "Made." Top this madness off with the fact that I am constantly having hot flashes and you'd think I was either pregnant or going through early menopause. That might make perfect sense to some, but I am a man. Please advise.

—Josh Tyler

Dear Josh:

Getting all emotional, weepy and/or overheated can come from a number of sources — a lack of sleep, undue stress or perhaps a softening of the spirit (for example, a new love or puppy in one's life, becoming more concerned about others) — but we would be remiss if we didn't recommend you see your physician for a full checkup, including blood work. Provided everything checks out OK, you may just be one of those sensitive men who embraces his vulnerability. Then again, you may just be a big wuss.

Dear Advice Diva:

My yearly two-week vacation is around the corner, and this time, I have vowed not to pack everything I own. I want to have a carefree time with my husband (we are going to the Caribbean) without having to lug around too much luggage. Do you have any packing tips?

—Fashion Girl

Dear Fashion Girl:

Pack only white clothing — and if you're a pasty girl like the Advice Diva, get yourself a good self-tanner — and as many fun tropical accessories (wooden bracelets, shell necklaces, hoop earrings, bright scarves to work the sultry bohemian look) as you can find. Throw in a couple pair of sandals, a cotton wrap for breezy nights, swimwear and great sunglasses. Done.

Dear Advice Diva:

My girlfriend has a hairy upper lip that she refuses to acknowledge exists. What can I do, short of waxing her while she's sleeping?

—Simon Says Shave?

Dear Simon:

Why not take the waxing challenge with your fuzzy love. Something not unlike, "I've made appointments for both of us at the House of Wax. I'm gonna get my hairy back done and I thought you might want to do your upper lip. It's starting to cast a shadow." She may storm off, but we bet she won't cancel the appointment.

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