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Posted on: Monday, August 21, 2006

Extension tough, but part of job

By Tom Philpott

With Army Staff Sgt. Brian Flower and his unit scheduled to be home soon following a yearlong deployment in Mosul, Iraq, Jennifer Flower resigned from her civilian job at Fort Wainwright, Alaska, to prepare for his homecoming and reassignment to Fort Knox, Ky.

On July 26, however, Jennifer Flower heard a news report that shocked her. The 172nd Stryker Brigade Combat Team, Flower's unit, might see its combat tour extended by up to 120 days.

Army Gen. George W. Casey, commander of Multi-National Forces-Iraq, ordered the 4,000-member brigade to Baghdad to help stop the violence between Sunnis and Shiites. In July alone, more than 1,800 Baghdad residents were killed, raising fears of a broader civil war if attacks continue.

"I called friends to see if they had heard the same rumors. Then we all just waited to get the official word," Jennifer said. It came that evening.

In a video teleconference with the brigade's Family Readiness Group — spouse volunteers ready to pass along information and provide support to other families — Col. Michael Shields, brigade commander, confirmed the disappointing news.

Families have altered travel and vacation plans, arranged for ticket refunds and unpacked boxes. Some have taken their children on to new assignments, including to Europe, so they can settle in before school starts. Other children are surprised to be returning to Fairbanks schools.

"Just like anything else in the military, stuff happens unexpected. It is what it is. So you pick yourself up and you carry on," Jennifer said.

Spouses who are counseling spouses, through the readiness group, said most families have gotten over the shock. Soldiers and families are focusing on their new challenges. One is to ship back a lot of personal gear that soldiers already sent home. Also returning to Iraq will be 300 soldiers who had been sent home early to prepare for the full brigade's return.

Tricia Rambin, wife of the brigade's operations officer, Lt. Col. Mitchell Rambin, said her first concern on hearing of the extension was to be sure her sons, Matthew and William, got the information from her, not the media.

Eleven-year-old Matthew, she said, "cried for a few minutes, then pulled himself together and said, 'Well, that's OK. That's my dad's job.' "

The Rambin family immediately sent an e-mail to her husband, Tricia said, "to let him know that we were OK. That we actually felt bad for him that he wasn't coming home to us. And that we were doing fine. He needed to get back to work and not worry about us."

Maj. Kirk Gohlke, spokesman for U.S. Army Alaska, said that in Baghdad the brigade will "assist the Iraqi security force with the sectarian violence. ... It's the most critical mission over there right now."

The 172nd was chosen, he said, "because it has proven itself in combat (and) is the most experienced brigade over there."

Nineteen of the brigade's soldiers have died in Iraq. More than 300 have been wounded. The Baghdad mission couldn't be more dangerous, working with Iraqi units to control deadly militias and insurgents.

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