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The Honolulu Advertiser
Posted on: Thursday, January 25, 2007

Review basic car rules with your child

Advertiser Staff

  • All passengers should wear a seat belt or an age- and size-appropriate car safety seat or booster seat.

  • Your child should ride in a car safety seat with a harness as long as possible and then ride in a belt-positioning booster seat. Your child is ready for a booster seat when she has reached the top weight or height allowed for her seat, her shoulders are above the top harness slots, or her ears have reached the top of the seat.

  • Your child should ride in a belt-positioning booster seat until the vehicle's seat belt fits properly. The shoulder belt lies across the middle of the chest and shoulder, not the neck or throat; the lap belt is low and snug across the thighs, not the stomach; and the child is tall enough to sit against the vehicle seat back with her legs bent at the knees and feet hanging down.

  • All children under age 13 years of age should ride in the rear seat of vehicles.

    HOW TO RESPOND

    HELPFUL TIPS FOR YOUR BULLIED CHILD

  • Help your child learn how to respond by teaching your child how to:

    1. Look the bully in the eye.

    2. Stand tall and stay calm in a difficult situation.

    3. Walk away.

  • Teach your child how to say in a firm voice:

    1. "I don't like what you are doing."

    2. "Please do NOT talk to me like that."

    3. "Why would you say that?"

  • Teach your child when and how to ask for help.

  • Encourage your child to make friends with other children.

  • Support activities that interest your child.

  • Alert school officials to the problems and work with them on solutions.

  • Make sure an adult who knows about the bullying can watch out for your child's safety and well-being when you cannot be there.