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Posted on: Saturday, August 2, 2008

More bullies posting their taunts online

By Janet Kornblum
USA Today

Ricky Alatorre doesn't know which classmate surreptitiously hoisted a cell-phone camera and snapped his picture or exactly when it happened.

All Ricky, 16, knows is the fuzzy yet distinguishable portrait of him in English class showed up on MySpace, on a page that claimed to be his. And the fake profile, titled "The Rictionary," not only identified his school but also said Ricky loved dictionaries — a swipe at his school smarts — and was gay (he's not), one of the most common schoolyard taunts.

Tall, big and bookish, Ricky, who lives on a farm in Lake County, Ind., had been picked on since he was in kindergarten.

Insults flung in the heat of anger always inflict some pain. But words and pictures posted on the Internet, where they can be seen by anyone, have taken bullying to a whole new level.

"I was completely devastated," Ricky says.

As younger and more kids get their hands on cell-phone and digital cameras and nearly ubiquitous high-speed Internet connections, cyberbullying is ramping up and taking new forms. Teens, children and sometimes adults are adding pictures and videos to their bullying arsenal and posting them on sites like MySpace, Facebook and YouTube, where anyone can see them.

And bullying has led to real consequences — from fights to teen suicides, or what some label "bullycides." States are beginning to take action with tough new laws targeting those who use electronic means to bully.

'VERY, VERY HURTFUL'

Online harassment of American young people ages 10 to 17 increased 50 percent (from 6 percent to 9 percent) from 2000 to 2005, according to the latest research available, a watershed report by the University of New Hampshire's Crimes Against Children Research Center.

But there hasn't been nearly enough research on the subject, says Corinne David-Ferdon, a health scientist at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

Compounding the frustration is that children often fail to report bullying. They fear that tormentors will become angrier and bully them more or worry that if they report being bullied over the Internet or on a cell phone, their phone and Internet privileges will be revoked.

The problem gained visibility with news about high school girls getting in trouble after posting school fights on YouTube.

Five girls from Lakeland, Fla., face charges over an incident March 30 in which they are accused of participating in the beating of a 16-year-old acquaintance in retaliation for her saying nasty things about them on MySpace. They videotaped the beating and planned to post it on MySpace and YouTube, says Chip Thullbery, state attorney spokesman in Polk County.

"You're bullied twice," says Nancy Willard, author of "Cyber-Safe Kids, Cyber-Savvy Teens" and "Cyberbullying and Cyberthreats." "You're bullied in the real world with a physical attack, and then you're bullied online with humiliation. It's very hurtful. Very, very hurtful."

STATES TAKING ACTION

Politicians are starting to take note. Thirty-six states have anti-bullying laws, according to Bully Police, a watchdog group organized by Barbara Paris, principal of Canyon Vista Middle School in Austin, Texas.

In June, Florida Gov. Charlie Crist signed the Jeffrey Johnston Stand Up for All Students Act. The anti-cyberbullying law came after the 2005 suicide of 15-year-old Jeffrey, who his mother says had endured three years of torturous harassment over the Internet.

TIPS FOR PARENTS OF BULLIED KIDS

If you're a parent worried that your child could be cyberbullied, experts say you should follow the basic steps.

  • Most important, talk to your child. Make sure he or she is observing online safety rules, such as never giving out personal information.

    A child who's being bullied may exhibit signs such as withdrawing, lethargy, depression, extreme change in behavior and frequent illnesses, says Jodee Blanco, a school consultant and author of two books on bullying.

  • If the problem is affecting a child in school, talk to the principal, says Nancy Willard, cyberbullying expert and author of "Cyberbullying and Cyberthreats." School administrators should deal with each instance on a case-by-case basis. Not all experts agree on the perfect remedy. Punishment is usually appropriate, but it should be meted out carefully, some advise, or it can result in the bully taking more revenge on the victim.

  • Experts agree that the worst thing to do is to ignore cyberbullying. Cyberspace may seem like an abstract concept to older adults, but to kids who have grown up socially networking, it's an integral and important part of their lives.

  • By the same token, experts also agree that banishing a victim from Web sites, computers and cell phones is like banishing them from their world. Plus, it doesn't work. Corinne David-Ferdon, health scientist at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, suggests teaming up, online and offline, with other parents who can offer help and suggestions. And if it persists, consult experts.

    ONLINE ADVICE AND HELP

    www.bullycide.org

    www.bullypolice.org/StopOrRemoveCyberInfo.pdf

    www.saferschools.com

    www.cdc.gov/ncipc/dvp/electronic_aggression.htm

    www.cyberbully.org