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Posted on: Friday, December 5, 2008

PEARL DELIMA, 1920 - 2008
Pearl DeLima, 88, was her son's 'biggest fan'

By Wayne Harada
Advertiser Entertainment Writer

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Frank DeLima says his mother, Pearl, was a talented baker. She was also well known to the local comedian's audience.

ADVERTISER LIBRARY PHOTO | May 2, 1988

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Pearl DeLima, the mother of comedian Frank DeLima, died yesterday at Alexander Manor, where she had been residing. She was 88.

"Mom was my biggest fan," DeLima said.

Indeed, DeLima's audience knew her as well as his comedy routines. At his club appearances she attended, she often took a bow like a celebrity but she also monitored his act with pride.

"I'll miss the smiles she brought to everybody," DeLima said. "She sang for everyone; a lot of people tell me how wonderful I was, because of her."

Pearl DeLima worked at the Punahou School cafeteria, then at Camp Timberline, involved in food service. She retired many years ago.

"She loved baking; she made the best cream puff, pies and cakes," DeLima said. "She made many wedding cakes for our church and circle of friends."

Pearl DeLima was born March 9, 1920.

"She was an orphan and had a tough childhood," DeLima said. "She lived at St. Anthony's home in Kalihi and the Sacred Hearts nuns brought her up. Consequently, she was a devout Catholic — all of the family was. She prayed for us every night."

The comedian said his mom and her circle of Portuguese lady friends influenced his humor and style the past three decades.

"I'll miss the part where she throws the Portagee guilt to me; you know, the suffering; that's been part of my life and I've learned to deal with it," he said.

She was feisty two days ago, when DeLima last talked to her. "Every time I call, she tells me, 'I want baby powder, cream for my itchy toes, and saimin (Cup-a-Noodle),' " he said. "And prune juice, apple sauce ... but she always said, 'No buy too much; I don't know how long I'll live.' "

Besides son Frank, survivors include three daughters, Rochelle Ramirez of Oakland, Sandy Kittleson of Minnesota and Pi'ilani Wilcox of Las Vegas, and another son, Mark DeLima of Ohio. Services are pending.

Reach Wayne Harada at wharada@honoluluadvertiser.com.