The present that Kimberly Tarpley most wants this year won't fit under a Christmas tree.

She would like a lead on an affordable four-bedroom house in Kane'ohe near her job and her school. The clincher here is that it has to be handicapped-accessible and roomy enough for her 5-year-old son's medical needs.

Three years ago, her son was diagnosed with lymphangioma of the tongue, a condition that has no known cure. It required a tracheotomy and a feeding tube for the times his condition acts up, and he can't eat or take anything by mouth.

Tarpley, 27, has four sons, ages 2, 5, 6 and 9. Right now, they live in a three-bedroom townhome in Mililani, and she makes the commute to Windward Community College where she attends classes in nursing. That's why she wants to move.

"Our world changed forever when my son was diagnosed," Tarpley said. "Life became extremely difficult and unbearable at times."

Tarpley is described by those who know her as someone who is driven and energetic and can make people feel comfortable easily. Her family support is on the Big Island. She tried moving her children there after her son was diagnosed, but his condition required more medical attention than she could obtain, so she returned to O'ahu seven months ago and has been struggling to keep up with basic necessities.

"There is so much that the children deserve, it saddens me when I am not able to give them the things they deserve," Tarpley said. "If I could make a wish list, it would be so minimal yet so appreciated."

If someone steps forward and offers to adopt Tarpley, she would appreciate a gift card to any store where she could purchase clothes for her sons, and a holiday meal. Bicycles, skateboards, helmets and knee and elbow pads for her other children would be a bonus.

"Despite the ongoing challenges that we face daily, we hang on to our faith, trusting that our life will get better and my son will be healed," Tarpley said.

"These are goals and dreams that in time are going to be fulfilled in which I will be able to provide a solid foundation for my children.

"I can only look forward to the day when I will become financially stable and am able to give back and help others."