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Updated at 4:01 a.m., Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Olympics: Chinese-American returns as athlete in Beijing

By STEPHEN WADE
Associated Press

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U.S. team player Sugui Kriss, center, cheers surrounded by her team mates, Gina McWilliams, left and Kari Miller, right, as her American sitting volleyball team team scores against China during a sitting volleyball match at the Paralympic games in Beijing, China.

ELIZABETH DALZIEL | Associated Press

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BEIJING — SuGui Kriss always wanted to return to China to rediscover her roots and, perhaps, leave her mark on the country.

She's done both.

She marched into the National Stadium — the Bird's Nest — last weekend for the opening ceremony of Beijing's Paralympic Games, representing the United States as a member of its sitting volleyball team.

How different from her early life in southern China — an abandoned infant who was raised in an orphanage in Kunming until she was adopted at age 8 by Americans Charles and Marilyn Kriss.

"SuGui goes from a forsaken situation to marching into the Bird's Nest in front of 90,000 fans," Charles Kriss said. "It's a great testimony."

If Paralympic organizers are looking for a poster girl among the 4,000 athletes in these games, the 21-year-old SuGui Kriss would be among them. She's overcome her share of problems — and she has a powerful serve.

According to her coach and parents, the Paralympics have taken a slightly shy girl and given her confidence, a more outgoing personality and a chance to return with a Paralympic medal to her home in Albany, N.Y.

The U.S. team finished 2-1 in pool play and will face the Netherlands on Friday in the semifinals. The Americans won the bronze medal four years ago in Athens, and a victory against the Dutch would put them into the gold-medal game — probably against China.

The Americans' only loss was to China, the defending Paralympic champions.

In Wednesday's 25-12, 25-17, 25-11 win over Latvia, Kriss picked up four points serving, her first of the tournament.

"I was excited to play, I was ready to play. I was all pumped up," said Kriss, a substitute backline player. "When you know you are going to play, you can't wait to do it."

Added Denise Van De Walle, assistant coach of the U.S. team: "I feel like she's come out of her shell. Early on we weren't sure if she was going to cut it because she was new to the game and a little bit shy."

Kriss is one of thousands of Chinese orphans — mostly girls — adopted by foreign parents during the 1990s. The Chinese government has tightened the rules recently, making foreign adoptions more difficult and more time consuming.

Named Yang SuGui on her Chinese papers, she joined the Kriss family in 1994 after their friends went to an orphanage in Kunming to complete an adoption. They returned home with photos of SuGui, which they passed on to Charles and Marilyn Kriss.

"They came back and called us, and it went from there," Marilyn Kriss said. "We really felt like she is supposed to be in our family."

Marilyn Kriss made the trip to Kunming in August 1995 to pick up their new child — one of six, three adopted and three biological children, for the couple.

"She was a little girl who was very shy, very scared," Marilyn Kriss recalled of their first meeting. "She was very frightened. She came into the room and she was afraid to look at me."

Charles Kriss recalls a slightly different child, bounding off an airplane 10 feet ahead of her new mother as they arrived in the United States.

"She was coming to America to start a new life, and she was going to do it," her father said. "She has a lot of inner strength, a lot of determination."

SuGui was born with shortened fingers on both hands, and a right foot that's not fully formed — probably due to a condition known as Amniotic Band Syndrome. She said her recollections of the orphanage are faint.

To clear that up, she returned to the orphanage two years ago and worked for seven weeks caring for infants and older children, many of whom were disabled. She found a cleaner facility, but fewer children. She also contacted a Chinese family who had helped care for her when she was in the orphanage.

"For me, my memory was that it wasn't a very pleasant place," she said. "Kids stayed inside and didn't go out a lot. That's what I remember."

Kriss said she has little interest in finding her biological family — at least for now, knowing it would be a long shot. She spoke Chinese as a child, but lost most of the language, limiting herself to "ni hao" (hello) like most foreigners.

"I can see how fortunate I was to have been adopted and what a better life I have right now," she said. "If I was actually still in China, I don't think I would have survived at all."