"BACH, BRITTEN AND BUTLER," one of the Abendmusiken Concert Series, with organist J. Melvin Butler of Seattle's St. Mark's Cathedral, featuring the music of Bach and Benjamin Britten's "Missa Brevis," set for women's voices and organ (originally composed for the boys of London's Westminster Cathedral); 4 p.m. Jan. 17, Lutheran Church of Honolulu; $15 general; $10 seniors and students; 941-2566.
"DISCIPLINE — SETTING RULES AND LIMITS," a free parenting skills workshop by Kathy Bentley, for parents, grandparents, babysitters and teachers; sponsored by the 3Y Ministry of Harris United Methodist Church, 9-10:30 a.m. Jan. 17, at the church; open to the public; reservations, 536-9602.
"WHEN LOVE REPLACES FEAR," Eckankar worship service for all faiths, 10-11 a.m. Jan. 17, Kaimukī Community Park, main hall; free; 735-7719, www.eckankar.org.
CALVARY EPISCOPAL CHURCH CAR WASH, fundraiser for church's family camp, 8 a.m.-2 p.m. Jan. 23; church's lower parking lot, Kāne'ohe; sedans $7 (others slightly higher); information/to volunteer, 941-1722.
UPDATE: WEEKLY MIDEAST BIBLE PROPHECY UPDATE, by the Rev. J.D. Farag of Calvary Chapel Kaneohe; 9:30 a.m. Sundays, at the church; followed by a verse-by-verse teaching from the Bible; information, 262-8800.
WEDNESDAYS AT ST. ANDREW'S, Episcopal Cathedral of St. Andrew; information, 524-2822.
• Holy Eucharist (communion) and short sermon, 11:45 a.m., Parke Chapel.
• Brown-bag concerts of chamber and choral music and recitals on the cathedral's Aeolian Skinner pipe organ; 12:15 p.m.; brown-bag lunches in the cathedral encouraged; free.
• Taize Evensong, contemplative, half-hour service, 5:30 p.m., in the cathedral.