In 1970, I began the journey of fatherhood in which my life and faith would be tested many times. It led me to a greater understanding and appreciation of our heavenly father and his son, Jesus Christ. Little did I know I would be blessed with a son who would bless my life and that of my family with his example.

My life was blessed with the birth of my eldest son. That day, I promised to protect him from all harm and provide for his every need. Over the years I was fortunate to experience his development into a dignified man of strength and courage. I soon came to learn that those characteristics would change my life.

In 2002, I was diagnosed with end-stage renal disease, which quickly progressed to kidney failure. After consultation with specialists, it was decided that a catheter would be implanted to begin dialysis for an undetermined amount of time. A kidney transplant would be in my best interest, doctors said.

Once my family learned of this condition, all four children offered to become my donor. This heartfelt gesture was overwhelming to me, but as a father, it was my job to protect them. I immediately declined the offer. I opted instead to continue with the dialysis treatment.

Over the next two years, my eldest son gently persisted with his offer of a kidney transplant. "It is better to give than to receive," he often said. After a period of contemplation and many prayers and sleepless nights, I reluctantly accepted.

Once my decision was made, he underwent extensive testing to determine if he was an appropriate match. The process would take several months. Every test had potential dangers and side effects, such as the life-threatening complication my son endured when he was injected with a dye during a CT scan, landing him in the emergency room. I once again decided to refuse to go through with this procedure, but before I could tell him, my son smiled and said, "Dad this is worth it and don't you even dare to think of canceling the surgery."

His strength and courage gave me the will to move forward.

I requested a priesthood blessing. During the blessing I was assured all would be well and that the kidney would start to work the instant it was connected, with this assurance I was ready. In Luke 1:37 we are told, "For with God nothing shall be impossible."

I had a successful surgery on Oct. 4, 2005. My son did not hesitate throughout the entire process.

When I awoke, the doctor told me that the kidney started to work the moment it was in place and connected.

My first encounter with my son came two days later. Tears rolled down my cheek thinking about the sacrifices he has made to provide me with this special gift on his own birthday.

Yes, on his birthday, my son gave me the gift of life.

Stan Barcarse is a high counselor of the Hilo Hawai'i stake of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.