Editor's note: With the departure of Ka'ohua Lucas, we're seeking a family columnist to fill her monthly spot on the 'Ohana page. Do you have a gift for writing, a good sense of place — and a family willing to be discussed in public? If so, please submit a resume and three sample columns, about 500 words each, to: Features Editor Elizabeth Kieszkowski, The Advertiser, P.O. Box 3110, Honolulu, HI 96802.