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Posted on: Monday, July 7, 2008

Babies stylish to some teens

By Megan K. Scott
Associated Press

News that 17 girls at a Massachusetts high school became pregnant this year is raising questions about whether pregnancy has become something alluring to teens.

Many teen pregnancies still take place against a backdrop of economic distress or a search for love, experts say — that's been the case for years.

But counselors say they now are also concerned about factors that may make it easier for teens to become sexually active without fully understanding the potential consequences: Glamour shots of pregnant celebs are featured in magazines and on TV alongside increasingly sexualized fashions and images of younger girls.

Nationwide, the teen birth rate rose 3 percent from 2005 to 2006, the most recent year with data available, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. That was the first increase recorded since 1991, though federal officials said it might be a statistical blip.

Some say teens' understanding may be skewed by real-life celebrity pregnancies as well as some recent fictional movies.

While there have always been celebrities who had babies, today's teen girls absorb coverage of their favorite actresses and singers voraciously: A report issued by Experian Consumer Research, found that that 23 percent of teen girls surveyed in 2004 had read Us Weekly in the last six months, compared with 6 percent in 2000, for example.

Front and center in those celebrity magazines: babies and their fashionable mothers.

Barely a week goes by without some kind of celebrity baby coverage — speculation about "baby bumps"; coverage of swanky celebrity baby showers; and of course, pictures of the babies themselves, often with their adoring, perfectly styled moms.

Carol Weston, who writes an advice column for Girls' Life magazine, said the glamorous images of pregnant celebrities can inspire young girls to become mothers. Teens get the idea that pregnancy is fun, said Weston, author of "Girltalk: All the Stuff Your Sister Never Told You."

Kimberly Hughes, a 16-year-old from Glen Rock, N.J., who reads US Weekly, People and CosmoGIRL!, agrees.

"I like reading the stories. It's really interesting seeing the lives of celebrities. It seems to be so easy for them, but in reality, it's not like that for them at all," she said. "It's like look at what you can do if you have a baby. Look at these cool perks you get out of it."

Magazine editors say celebrity pregnancy is news.

"People has been covering and celebrating celebrity babies for over 34 years from Cher and Greg Allman's son to Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony's twins," the magazine said in a statement. "Our readers have come to expect these kinds of intimate family moments in the pages of the magazine, and we plan to continue to deliver this inside access."

Us Weekly declined to comment.

Movies can also influence teens, Weston said. After "Juno," an Oscar-winning 2007 movie about a high school student who becomes pregnant, came out, Weston received lots of letters from teens who wanted to have babies, she said.

Weston said girls may not realize that most stories don't end like Juno's, who found a beautiful, rich woman to take care of her baby and still kept her boyfriend.

"It's not that pretty, especially if you have no degree, no job, and no mate," she said.

USE NEWS TO TALK TO KIDS ABOUT SEX AND PREGNANCY

By Megan K. Scott

Associated Press

With a lot of attention on teen pregnancy these days, parents can use the news to talk about sex and pregnancy with their children:

Here are some tips from experts.

  • Have age-appropriate discussions about sex. Answer their questions openly and honestly.

  • Talk about teen pregnancy. Ask your kids what they think about "Juno" and Jamie Lynn Spears' pregnancy, said Bill Albert, spokesman for the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy.

  • Make sure your teen knows you are there for her. Say something along the lines of "I love you and I really hope you'll wait until you get married, or at least are older and more responsible. If you think about it, please come to me," said Dr. Nicole Karjane, an assistant professor in the Department of Obstetrics/Gynecology at Virginia Commonwealth University's School of Medicine.

  • If your teen says she wants to have a baby, ask her why. Then you can get a sense of what she is missing — love, attention, career goals, said Ellen deLara, assistant professor in the School of Social Work at Syracuse.

  • Talk about how hard it is to raise a family. Tell her about the huge responsibility that comes with being a parent, said Karjane.

  • Have her talk to other teen moms, who can share their experiences about how hard it is, said Karjane.

  • Connect with a religious institution, said deLara. She said that may give teens hope that their future is bright.