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Posted on: Sunday, June 14, 2009

Forums offer answers for moms


By Esme Infante Nii
Hawaii MomsLikeMe.com Editor

What to do when your toddler keeps waking up at night for bottles?

When one mom, who goes by the screen name ChubbyCheeks, came with her plight to the women who network on www.HawaiiMomsLikeMe.com, they offered their wisdom and warm encouragement — as well as some cries of "My kid, too!"

And in the end, ChubbyCheeks found a solution.

Here are excerpts from their online discussion.

My daughter is 14 months, and she still doesn't sleep through the night. Is this normal? She has before, when she was about 9 months, but then we moved from a room downstairs to upstairs. When she didn't sleep through the night, at first, I thought she was just "adjusting" to the move, like she could sense she was in a different place. But she still wakes up for a bottle or two throughout the night. ...

(Also), my daughter almost always needs a bottle to go to sleep. I read that it's not good for their teeth. I haven't tried using water, but how do I help her adjust?

— ChubbyCheeks

Some of the responses:

  • I think she's just used to the milk, so that's why she wakes up. Going to bed with the bottle is definitely not good for her teeth, or (could cause) ear infections. Try switching with water, and maybe then she will be, like, 'I ain't gonna wake up for water!' "

    — wahinekehau

  •  We asked our pediatrician what we should do. ... The doctor said to just let him cry it out. But he said once you start (this method), you can't stop, because if your child is crying for an hour straight and you give up and give in, he's gonna learn that, oh, I just gotta keep crying no matter how long to get whatever I want. So, we decided that we should do this approach. ... The first night, he woke up a few times and cried for about an hour with each episode. Every night after, it just got shorter and shorter. He was sleeping through the night after a week, for us.

    — mike5miko

    A few weeks later, ChubbyCheeks posted that she had succeeded in getting her daughter to quit pleading for a milk bottle by having her go cold turkey. She said it was tough to hear the baby scream, but after just two nights, she began sleeping through the night again.