President Obama got a pass on his crack about Special Olympics. It was just an aside, but it was awful.

If George W. Bush had said the same thing, he'd be excoriated. Then again, Bush said a lot of things that came out wrong. Everyone was waiting for the next gaffe like anticipating the "Sesame Street" baker falling down the stairs again. And he fell a lot.

But Bush never said something quite as hurtful about something quite as noble.

If Americans thought they were safe from cringe-worthy comments for the next four years, this incident was a reminder that even smart guys who always seem to know what to say can sometimes say thoughtless things.

If you missed what happened, Obama made an appearance on Jay Leno last week and amid talk of the economy, Leno asked about the White House bowling alley. Obama made a comment about how bad his score was, adding, "It was like Special Olympics."

Maybe Obama has never attended a Special Olympics event. If he did, he would never make a joke like that.

It is possibly the most uplifting gathering of people that you could ever be lucky enough to attend. There isn't anything awkward about the athletes or the events. It is all grace of body and spirit. Special Olympics brings to light all the best things about human beings: the ability to dare, to try our hardest, to put our hearts on the line. Winning means putting out your very best effort. There are so few chances in life to learn these things and to see them in action. Special Olympics is a celebration of "yes we can."

Obama was quick to apologize for what he said, and his apology was quickly accepted. That spirit of grace and understanding that lives in Special Olympics was extended to the president.

"He was sincere and heartfelt, and said that he is a fan of our movement and is ready to work with our athletes to make the United States a more accepting and welcoming country for all people with special needs," said Special Olympics chairman Timothy Shriver in an official statement.

Shriver called the incident a "teachable moment for our country." And, indeed, who hasn't let similar hurtful remarks pass from their lips?

President Obama is smart enough to learn from his mistake. It would be great if America could learn from his mistake, too.

Lee Cataluna's column runs Tuesdays, Fridays and Sundays. Reach her at 535-8172 or lcataluna@honoluluadvertiser.com.