By Catherine E. Toth
Advertiser Staff Writer
Not many college graduates can brag about a 3.4 grade point average, especially with a bachelors degree in economics.
Daniel and Catherine Mitsunaga
Ages: Both 26
Hometown: Moiliili
Position: Daniel graduated in December from the University of Hawaii-West Oahu with a bachelors degree in economics; Catherine is a rendering tech assistant at Square USA downtown.
Accomplishment: With Catherines help and support, Daniel learned to deal with his dyslexia and manage his attention deficit-hyperactivity disorder, and he beat the odds to get a college degree.
Quote: "Its never gone," Daniel Mitsunaga said about his learning disabilities. "You just learn to live with it." |
But Daniel Mitsunagas greatest accomplishment wasnt his academic performance at the University of Hawaii-West Oahu.
With only the help of Catherine, the girlfriend who eventually became his wife, the 26-year-old learned to manage his learning disabilities and beat the odds.
Diagnosed with dyslexia and attention deficit-hyperactivity disorder at a young age, Daniel spent 12 years in special education classes, lumped together with students of various disabilities, including blindness, mental retardation and serious behavioral problems.
With students of such varied learning abilities in one class, Daniel fell behind academically, graduating from McKinley High School with elementary reading and writing levels.
But you dont learn determination in a classroom.
"Just because a person has a learning disability doesnt mean theyre not capable," Daniel said. "Their talents are just someplace else."
Catherine the Great
An unlikely pair, Daniel and Catherine met at McKinley High School. Their meeting would change both their lives.
"Danny had the Mod Squad friends, all dressed in black," Catherine teased.
"She was in AP honors, student government, very popular," Daniel countered. "Everyone knew who she was. Catherine the Great. When I first saw her I said, Thats someone I need to know. "
Their worlds collided when they participated in a class play together. By senior prom, they were dating, something Daniel never expected.
"I figured wed never date," he said, looking at his wife. "Whod date someone in special ed? She was in honors. Her friends were overachievers. My classmates would eat as much as they can, then throw up."
He paused, then laughed, probably at a fond but distant memory.
Daniel graduated from high school with reading and writing levels lower than a fifth-graders.
Impressive SAT scores and grades made Catherine a perfect candidate for some competitive Mainland colleges. But she opted to attend Kapiolani Community College to be with him, dedicating most of her time to helping Daniel manage his disabilities.
She diligently taught him basic grammar and spelling, showed him how to combine words into sentences, sentences into paragraphs. Because of his attention-deficit disorder, she couldnt keep his attention for more than 10 straight minutes. She had to be quick and creative, using techniques she learned in elementary school and the high school speech club. They spent long hours after work and school to focus on basic concepts.
"We went over simple things," Catherine said, "like what is a table of contents, an index, an appendix, a chapter."
Daniel has learned tricks, too. When he feels antsy or hyper, he goes for a run to get the excess energy out. A visual learner, he also responded well to Catherines reading aloud.
In the beginning, Catherine regretted her decision to stay in Hawaii, to attend a community college, especially when her classmates were attending big-name universities and studying to become doctors and lawyers. But Daniel has helped her feel independent and in control of her own life. She believes that what she has learned about herself and life from him has been far more valuable than a degree in pre-med or engineering. They were married in 1997.
"Being with Danny has taught me the value of family and friends," said the effervescent 26-year-old. "My life wouldnt be the same. This is the best thing that ever happened to me."
Thirst for knowledge
Daniel always wondered what went on in other classrooms, what the other students were reading, writing, learning.
"He wanted to know everything I knew or be at the same level I was at," Catherine said about Daniels curiosity and appetite for learning in high school. "For him, a lot of it was the drive and want. It was more him than me. I led the horse to the water, but it was up to him to drink."
Daniel tried anything to comprehend the subject matter in his college classes. He used tape recorders often, and once brought in a video camera to tape a lecture.
"You do what you gotta do," Daniel said with a smile.
At KCC and UH-West Oahu, Daniel was offered some leeway for his disabilities. He could take an additional two hours for in-class exams and an additional day for homework. He never took those options.
"It was always a struggle for him because he was pushing himself," Catherine said.
In the meantime, Catherine, studying to become a nurse, decided to follow her heart instead of her mothers advice. With Daniels support, she quit her full-time job as a bank teller and worked for $5 an hour in sales at Hawaiian Graphics. Having dreamed of being an artist, Catherine took a chance.
That job led her to an internship with Square USA, the company producing the computer-generated full-length animated film "Final Fantasy" in Hawaii. She was later hired as a rendering tech assistant, doing the artwork she loves. She credits Daniel for encouraging her.
"You do what you love, the job and the money will come," said Catherine, who will graduate from the University of Hawaii-Manoa with a bachelors degree in art next semester.
The Mitsunagas pride themselves on having accomplished so much, both individually and together, without any charity, though both families have offered emotional support over the years.
They succeeded at that the way they approach just about every challenge that comes their way: finding strength in each other.
"She had to care enough to put up with me, and I needed to care enough to learn," Daniel said. "She was the only one who cared enough to believe in me. And because of her, Im here with a degree, ready to help anyone who wants to learn."
They both want to someday open up a school where he can teach other kids with learning disabilities and she can teach art.
"Its never gone," he said about his learning disabilities. "But you learn to live with it."
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